Today's post is about Crushes. I mentioned a little bit of crushes on my last post but not nearly as much as I should. Lets start from a girls point of view on crushes. Now we all know girls that crushes are very-very annoying. Sure you get that little weird feeling in your tummy when ever you see them. And you have those cute little romantic scenes in your head about them but crushes are annoying. You get jealous when they're with somebody else, a girlfriend sets you over the top. You don't want to go on Facebook to see him making out with some slag, or a really nice girl that you only call a slag because you've crushed on him that bad. Whenever I see the guy I've got a crush on I totally get jelly belly and completely forget what I'm talking about. I'll look at him from the corner of my eye in a way that makes me feel like I'm in a romcom, but the irony is its all com and no rom. That's what annoyed me so. I hate how nice looking guys are. I hate the fact that I went to school with ugly people and now their freakin' gorgeous. That's mean. Nobody's ugly. We all just have different attractions. Like me and my friend for intents. She's 17, goes to my school and is crushing on the exact same guy I was crushing on (before I found out he has a girlfriend). He isn't the nicest looking guy on the planet but that what we dig.
*Guys Point Of View*
I know yous are dying to hear about crushing from a guys Point Of View. I've never been a guy, now that's a fact, but I do have meany guys in my life and a twin brother so I think I know some stuff. Guys are just the same as girls in the hole crushes department. The only thing is guys keep it to themselves. I have yet to find a guy who tells me who he's crushing on. Guys don't really like to tell people who they like, its all apart of they're pride or something manly like that. Look at it like this. If a guy says he fancies a girl and then gets rejected its going to hurt his male ego. He'd rather get rejected and say ''Didn't like her anyways.'' Than having to face his friends and they're rants about how he couldn't get her. But not all guys are like that. Oh no. Everybody's different, even guys. Some guys tell you who the fancy. But I'm still yet to find a guy like that. I think guys shove off crushes. They don't let it boil and fester inside of them. Once they realise the girl isn't going for them, they move on. Its a pride thing.
(These are the people I'm jealous of ------->)
*Comfort Crushes*
Comfort crushes are crushes whom your best friends with. It doesn't matter what sex. A comfort crush is a person who your very close to. I had a comfort crush but things change. The only people I truly crush on are singers (Jake bugg, Stephan Abingdon,) and actors (Young Johnny Depp, Zack Braff, Gerran Howell) and some boys in my school (Whom shall remain anonymous) . I think a comfort crush is a very delicate stage in a teenagers life because you've got these mixed feelings about them. Its your best friend, but you want them to be more than a friend, but you don't want to spoil your grate friendship, but you want out the friendship zone. Its really hard. Fighting is the worst. You have a fight with your comfort crush, stop talking for a whole night and completely lose it. You cry and cry because the only person you can really talk to about the whole thing is your comfort crush. My friend as a comfort crush. He's always doing these cute little things to make her day seem all that more pleasant. I can't help but feel the small flicker of jealousy inside me. I hate seeing people together because it reminds me of how lonely I am. I see everybody with somebody and I go home and listen to ether hard core metal to help with my madness, or Radiohead because every single song by them helps me get over being lonely.
A Comfort Crush Is ~
''To say 'I love you' one must first be able to say 'I.''
*Guys Point Of View*
I know yous are dying to hear about crushing from a guys Point Of View. I've never been a guy, now that's a fact, but I do have meany guys in my life and a twin brother so I think I know some stuff. Guys are just the same as girls in the hole crushes department. The only thing is guys keep it to themselves. I have yet to find a guy who tells me who he's crushing on. Guys don't really like to tell people who they like, its all apart of they're pride or something manly like that. Look at it like this. If a guy says he fancies a girl and then gets rejected its going to hurt his male ego. He'd rather get rejected and say ''Didn't like her anyways.'' Than having to face his friends and they're rants about how he couldn't get her. But not all guys are like that. Oh no. Everybody's different, even guys. Some guys tell you who the fancy. But I'm still yet to find a guy like that. I think guys shove off crushes. They don't let it boil and fester inside of them. Once they realise the girl isn't going for them, they move on. Its a pride thing.
*Trusting*
I think that its not so hard to tell people you trust who your crushing on. I can trust a few people, depending on who I'm crushing on. Like, if its a guy everybody crushes on or nobody knows him, or he's a celeb then I'll tell the gossipers. I can't tell just anybody about some crushes though. I have some secrets to be kept with me, myself and I, and I'd like it to stay that way. I can trust my very-very dear friends (whom names will not be mentioned but they know who they are) who I can trust. The important thing about trusting somebody is knowing they aren't going to tell anybody. If your friends with a girl buts she's got a best friend that you don't really speak to then don't tell her. Best friends tell each other everything! It's the rule of best friends. And don't tell yous family ether. Its pretty likely that your siblings, parents or close nit family members will tease you about it. Sisters and brothers will blackmail you for stuff. Parents will make a fuss or say ''You're to young to be having crushes. Why back in my day,'' You get the point. Best friends are really the only person you can tell anything to.
(These are the people I'm jealous of ------->)
*Comfort Crushes*
Comfort crushes are crushes whom your best friends with. It doesn't matter what sex. A comfort crush is a person who your very close to. I had a comfort crush but things change. The only people I truly crush on are singers (Jake bugg, Stephan Abingdon,) and actors (Young Johnny Depp, Zack Braff, Gerran Howell) and some boys in my school (Whom shall remain anonymous) . I think a comfort crush is a very delicate stage in a teenagers life because you've got these mixed feelings about them. Its your best friend, but you want them to be more than a friend, but you don't want to spoil your grate friendship, but you want out the friendship zone. Its really hard. Fighting is the worst. You have a fight with your comfort crush, stop talking for a whole night and completely lose it. You cry and cry because the only person you can really talk to about the whole thing is your comfort crush. My friend as a comfort crush. He's always doing these cute little things to make her day seem all that more pleasant. I can't help but feel the small flicker of jealousy inside me. I hate seeing people together because it reminds me of how lonely I am. I see everybody with somebody and I go home and listen to ether hard core metal to help with my madness, or Radiohead because every single song by them helps me get over being lonely.
A Comfort Crush Is ~
- Somebody who you act yourself around.
- Somebody who knows you inside out and upside down.
- Somebody who loves you no mater what.
- Somebody who gets jealous or mad every time your with somebody else, or if something bad happens to you.
- Somebody who is so hopelessly devoted to you its like having a relationship but without the wee nasty bits (nudge nudge, wink wink).
*Being Single&Alone*
I don't really think there's a cure for that other than find a guy/girl and get into a relationship. But its hard being s teen and looking for somebody because most people have other stuff going on, or want something you don't want, or don't want what you do. Its frustrating I'd love to just find my perfect match, get married and spend forever with him. That's what I really want but I'm not that lucky. I'm never that lucky. Trusted. God will probably make me wait till I'm eighty before I find my man, and he'll probably be married. What I do when I realise I'm single and alone (which is everyday) is think of other things ~
- One day I'll find him. The reason its taking so long is to give me time before I settle down.
- I need to work on education before guys. There's 7billion people in the world and half of them are men. I'll have plenty of time to chose one.
- He's probably a draggier boy anyways.
If I think these then I kind of feel better about myself. I think of all the cute stuff I'll do when we're together. How much fun we'll have together. We'll be the perfect couple. But then after I do that I remember that I'm still very single at that moment and crank up the tunes.
Songs that will ether make you cry, or want to smash a brick wall with the hard bit of your knee.
- Paolo Nutini ~ Coming Up Easy ~ Candy ~ Jenny Don't Be Hasty ~ Autumn (All sad)
- Jake Bugg ~ Broken ~ Someone Told Me ~ Slide ~ Note To Self ~ Someplace ~ Song About Love (All sad)
- The Killers ~ Somebody Told Me ~ Mr Brightside ~ All These Things That I Have Done ~ Andy, Your A Star ~ When You Were Young (Some sad and some mad)
- Keane (God. We'd be here all day) ~Silenced By The Night ~ Lovers Are Losing ~ Everybody's Changing ~ Somewhere Only We Know.
''To say 'I love you' one must first be able to say 'I.''
I hope yous liked this weeks post and next Mondays will be about Interests.
Chow For Now ^-^
Now for some hot photos,
Why is Johnny Depp so hot? I mean seriously. Can't you just see how beautifully hot he is? I love him so much.
